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We need to take a long, hard look in the mirror: 6/ 21/ 2004

The New Bedford Standard-Times gave my most recent thoughts on 9/11 and "why they hate us so" very nice play on their editorial page today. You can go to the online version through the link above, or read it here. My version is a tad diffeent as to headline and layout.

Of moats and motes and looking deeply in the mirror

Over and over again we hear the question, ďWho could have ever imagined they would use planes in this way?Ē

Over and over again comes the obvious - and unspoken - answer: Osama bin Laden.

Thatís right. We, the mightiest nation on earth. We the educated. We the empowered. We the folks who spend more money on defense than the next 17 nations combined. We could not imagine this kind of attack could happen. Therefore, when it came, we were totally unprepared.

And now, as if to find sympathy for their colossal failures, we hear one person after another saying in effect that no one could have imagined such an attack.

Of course they could have. Some bearded guy roaming around in the mountains of the most Godforsaken, backwards country in the world could not only imagine such an attack, but pulled it off.

Ah, but now we know. Really? What is it that we know? That civilian airliners can be used as weapons? Thatís child's play when compared with the devastation and horror that could be wrought with nuclear or biological weapons.

Can we imagine the next attack? Or the one after that? Do we really think we can stop it by building a moat around Castle America? By strengthening cockpit doors? By searching airline passengers more diligently?

We may think this 9/11 Commission probe is sophisticated. We may think weíre getting to the bottom of things. We may think we are finding out what went wrong. But isnít this the simple part of the examination?

Someone just landed a punch on my jaw. Why? because I zigged when I should have zagged. I bobbed when I should have weaved. I was watching his left hand and, he hit me with his right. Simple stuff.

What I really need to know is why does this person want to punch me at all? I can survive one punch. Fifteen rounds is another thing. I want a real answer, not the pablum weíre being fed. I want what no Democratic or Republican politician seems willing to do - have the guts to look in the mirror and ask deeply the question that was on everyoneís lips in the weeks after September 11.

Why do they hate us so?

George Bush has given us the self-indulging, politicianís answer. They hate us because they hate our freedom. Really? Nineteen people sat around in the mountains of Afghanistan, or their homes in Saudi Arabia, and said: ďGee, America has too much freedom. I hate that? Donít you hate that? Letís commit suicide and take a bunch of them with us.Ē

Why do they hate us so?

They hate us because we are good and they are evil.

What are we, children? Do we really believe the world is that simple? There are good guys - us - and there are bad guys - them? That all you need to tell the good guys from the bad guys is to ask them where they are from? If they are from America, they are good. If they are from somewhere else, they are evil?

Why do they hate us so?

Because they were unlucky enough to be born into poverty and we were lucky enough to be born into one of the most wonderful societies the world has ever known?


Because they think we are rich because we are ripping them off? They have the oil. We want the oil. But somehow we end up with the oil and only a few of them get rich - the ones we have struck a deal with. Is this why they hate us?


Because we killed democracy in Iran and supported monarchies and tyrants throughout the middle East - monarchies and tyrants who rip off their people?


Because we support Israel and they support the Palestinians?


Because they believe in a paternalistic culture and think we are robbing them of this and spreading a culture of greed and moral decay?


The only thing I am certain of is this: We are not the good guys. They are not the bad guys. Maybe weíre mostly good. Maybe theyíre mostly bad, or maybe itís a closer thing with the good and bad fairly evenly distributed.

But maybe it has nothing to do with being good or bad. Maybe we simply donít understand one another. Didnít you ever offend someone without knowing it? Without intending it. Maybe someone as close as your wife, or husband, or child, or parent, or neighbor?

We have made some people terribly angry. We have spent millions of dollars and countless hours trying to discover how it is they managed to sucker punch us. But we havenít spent five minutes asking ourselves why they hate us so. We havenít spent a dollar in trying to understand their motives and correct the situation.

I donít know if we can ever prevent another terrorist attack. But I do know that we will not if we simply sit around accepting the kind of answers we are getting from politicians who want our vote. Pat the nice American people on the head. Tell them theyíre good, Then you get elected.

Itís a tough, complicated world. And getting along with our neighbors is one of the most difficult things we do. Maybe we canít do it. But right now the whole world is our neighbor and everything we have done since September 11 has made those who already hated us, hate us more - and many of those who were our friends, start to hate us.

We have to step back from this silliness. We have to rethink. And part of that rethinking has to be a long, hard look in the mirror. And that will be one hundred times as difficult as the self-examination the 9/11 Commission just put us through - and many, many times more profitable.

Jesus said it best 2,000 years ago. ďAnd why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brotherís eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?Ē Matthew - 7:3

Posted by Greg Stone at June 21, 2004 07:49 AM
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